Cougars - Hot or Not?

Today finds me guest blogging over at Mummy Diaries on the topic of Cougars. Do you get why some older women chase after much younger men? Is it a sexual thing or just about ego gratification? Or is it just a trend Samantha from Sex and the City started to make it look like it is great fun when it probably isn't all that apart from for a quick roll in the hay? Should the fantasy of making steamy love to a young buck stay inside the covers of romance novels or should older women act on these desires? Is there a double standard at work here, society frowns on older men with young girls because it's a bit perverted while frowning on older women with younger men because it's somehow indecent? So please do me a favour, pop over here and let's have a heated debate!!